**dating disaster**

Friday night a bunch of us went out to the martini bar, and to the sky bar. Well I invited this guy I met at the auditions he seemed cool. I invited him cuz we all were talking about going at the auditions. So I texted him on Friday and was like so are you going down with us or meeting us down there? And he said I'll ride down with you guys. Me being kinda the brat I am, say oh well then can you drive? Ha ha ha. He was nice and said that was no problem. So I'm freakin out because my friend Bethany was supposed to drive with me to his house, well she was running late, so I had to ride with him BY MYSELF!!! Scary I know! I get to his house and he invites me in to have a shot of vodka before we go. I'm like suRe why not!? We're celebrating my birthday, I want to get my drink on.. We leave his house and have great conversation on the way down. Get to the martini bar all my friends are there and we find out HE'S MARRIED! So I turn to him and say, where's your wife at? He's like oh we're "seperated" just living together with our kids. And trying to work it out. Aubree replied obviously your not trying to work it out if your not wearing your wedding ring and your wife isn't here with us. I'm freakin out at this point because in no way shape or form did I intend on anything to happen with this dude. I was just being nice and invited him along. Well he bought all my drinks I felt bad, but. We were all there for me so why should I pay for my drinks! Ha ha anyways he drinks too much and I end up having to drive home cuz I didn't drink nearly as much as I wanted to. Well we're in his car and he turns to me and says" tania your unlike any girl I've ever met. Your not like any Mexican I've ever met.. Oh you don't EVER call me a Mexican. Cuz I'm not. I reply to him. "first off I'm not Mexican, I was born in el Salvador completly different country. 2nd of all probably cuz I'm adopted and my parents are white so pretty much I'm a white girl trapped in a brown girls body! Ha ha ha I was just trying to make light of the situation since he just pissed me off for the 100th time that night. so pretty much I guess I have written acrossed my forehead "homewrecker" so that all the loser DOUCHE-BAG married guys that are having "marriage problems" come find me! This is the 2nd time this has happened! Its just terrible. It really is. And it all started because I was trying to be nice.