So apparently I don't have to make the move or decide on moving until spring..so I'm think March or April? Which is fabulous news on my part! I was seriously stressing so much about what to do! Now I have sometime to really think if I want to give up my life here............. Ha ha not really give it up.....more like social suicide! And start over down there. Just because a lot well all of my friends down there are married and on their 3rd kid.. What fun is that hanging out with a bunch of married people when your 25 and single? Its alright. No offense my friends that read this.... I'm just glad I have a good 3 or 4 months to decide! Thanks for all your advice!