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28 August, 2008
its official*
I am officially the last one in my family to get married! I am so sad about this. I am happy for my sister but my mom called me today and told me they are getting married on Sept. 19th. Can I just say my heart fell into my stomach? I've known for awhile that they were going to get married soon but I didn't think THIS SOON! I just always thought I'd be married by now, be on my 6th kid. All my friends that are married and have gotten divorced say that marriage is over rated... Is it really over rated? I guess it depends on whether or not you settle for less then what you want. When I think back on all the LOSERS I've dated. I'm so glad I didn't marry any of them! Ha ha but still its sad that I'm the last one in my family to get married. What should I do? Where should I go to meet the man of my dreams? Where should I go to look for a decent guy? I go out a lot to the bars and clubs but I don't ever go to look for guys. I go to dance and have fun. If I just so happen meet a cute guy that's fine. But SERIOUSLY I'm obviously looking in the wrong places for a guy to marry! Is 25 too young to get married? I just had this conversation with my friend Necia on Monday. That I'm fine not being married right now, I get to go out and have fun, and I'm kinda glad I'm not tied down to kids. But at the same time I DO want to be married!!! But really, I must be going to the wrong places to find a guy. Now I feel that I'm a pretty hot looking chic and I don't need to go to E harmony to find a date. But man... If I'm 30 by the time I get married that might be an option I'm willing to take!
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4 comments:
Congrats Tallee!
As for you little Tania. Don't worry one bit. As I see it, I got married the 1st time when I was 18 (oh god) and of course you know that it didn't work out. So then I was single for a few years and loved every single minute. Then Heath and I got married when I was 28 he was 30 and it seemed like the perfect age to get married. I think any time past 25 is great because you know who you are, what you want and you have pretty much done most everything that you have wanted to and are ready to settle down.
If I have any advice for anyone it would be to wait until 25 to even consider marriage. I know there are many marriages that work out that get married before 25 but still. Go have fun and when the time comes for you to get married and find that perfect guy it will just happen.
Do you remember that Heath and I met in a bar on a night when my roommate made me go, his friends the same, I had a broken foot and had to sit at his friends table the entire night and so on... Everything fell into place and I think that was because it was meant to be.
Although, I have heard of a great book if you want to be able to meet better guys. IT is called "Turn your Cab Light On". You could try that. She says that you can meet your dream guy anywhere the gym, bars, clubs, grocery store and so on if you use a few simple things from her book and I have heard that it works.
Good Luck Tanni! And don't worry, you still have so much time to find your man and it will happen! :)
Hey Tanni,
I totally agree with Denise! 25 is NOT that old and you shouldn't be worried if you're not married by now! It will happen when you least expect it! In the mean time enjoy your single years. Read that book that Denise suggested, I heard it's really good!
Good luck!
All right now Tanni....just remember, I am one of the oldest Kerby grandkids, my brother and Ruthanne being the only ones older... and I am not married (Garrett, you, and Jessica (who apparently has a man darn it all ;) are the only singles I can think of left on our side)...But! I don't think 25 is too old to still be single, heck I'm 36 and an 'old maid' but I do have a wonderful son and if I don't meet anyone, he'll be the man in my life.
Everything happens when it should, and I have YET to resort to EHarmony... although I have dallied with other sites, but haven't yet found many guys I'd even be willing to meet, let alone marry!
Good luck with finding men!
Oh Tanni your still so young. All the girls have great advice. TAKE YOUR TIME! I didn't get married until I was almost 27 and that lasted a whole year and a half. My suggestion is to be picky and do a backgroud search. I'll keep my eyes open for a man. Don't listen to Denise about the dates I used to set her up on. I'm much better at it now!
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